Dressing for a first date can be a little daunting. You want to look your best, and wear something that makes you feel beautiful and sexy. For many women it can be hard to decide when that “sexy outfit” starts to look sleazy rather than sexy.
We see celebrities all the time wearing gowns on the red carpet that are so sheer or low cut that they leave little to the imagination. No matter how glamorous they look wearing these outfits on the red carpet, in real life they would look downright sleazy wearing so little with so much showing. So, how do you make sure that you are accentuating your best features without putting them on display? Here are some tips from the advice panel bloggers that will help you find dress with the perfect amount of sexiness without crossing the line.
Tina of LuvemOrLeavem relationship advice consulted fashionistas around the web to get their best tips on dressing with just enough sexy appeal for that all important first date. She also shares some simple red flags that will let you know that you’ve crossed the line into looking sleazy.
Nando of the dating tips blog Nandoism takes to the streets of New York where asks men and women where they draw the line between sleazy and sexy. You’ll laugh, you’ll learn and you’ll discover how Janet Jackson and Kim Kardashian can help you when deciding how to dress for that first date.
Abiola of the dating advice blog Abiola TV is in her element getting to cover dating and fashion in the same video. She heads into New York’s fashion district to give her tips on dressing for the first date along with showing you some fashions that would also be perfect for dating milestones like meeting his parents or your first holiday together.
What do you think? What are your guidelines for when sexy starts to look sleazy when dressing for that all important first date. Please share you thoughts in the comments section.
Computers, social media and cell phones make communication easier than ever before, but they also make it difficult for many people to determine when their cyber communication crosses over into being inappropriate or even cyber cheating. LuvemOrLeavem’s Advice Panel vloggers share their tips for how to decide if that message or photo you are about to send is appropriate or inappropriate. Follow their tips and you will never have to feel the regret of realizing that you shouldn’t have sent that message after you’ve already hit “send.”
Tina of LuvemOrLeavem relationship advice, has one main guideline for determining if your social media contact and texting is crossing over the line into sexting. Follow her guideline and you’ll never question whether that friendly message you planned to send has morphed into something inappropriate.
Terez of Regain Your Relationship shares his tips for determining if your cyber relationships are likely to cause trouble for your real life relationship. He also shares some general guidelines for posting things online even if you are sending them to your partner, because what goes online stays online even if you remove it later.
Nando of the dating blog Nandoism asks New Yorkers when they believe that texting crosses the line. He also finds out how they feel about the sexting scandal involving their own congressman, Anthony Weiner. You’ll laugh and learn as Nando hit the streets of New York with this question.
Mike the Master Dater is an expert on texting and sexting as well as one of our most popular guest vloggers. Mike and his girlfriend Mai weigh in on when texting and social media cross the line into cheating and you’ll get a sneak peak at why Mai is called Mafia Mai.
What do you think? When does a text message cross the line into sexting? Have you ever sent a message you regretted sending? Please share your thoughts in the comments section.
What do you do when your best friend or your spouse’s best friend hits hard times and wants to move in with you? We all want to help our friends, but having a house guest for an indefinite amount of time is a surefire way to create all sorts of tension between you and your spouse. See what LuvemOrLeavem’s advice panel vloggers have to say about what should do if your friend asks to move in with the two of you “temporarily.”
Tina of LuvemOrLeavem relationship advice has two main warnings that concern how this decision will affect both your relationship with your friend and your relationship with your spouse. Plus, you need to consider what you will do if this temporary situation were to become indefinite.
What do you think? Would you let a friend move in with you and your spouse or would you tell them no? Please share your thoughts in the comments section.
You and your boyfriend have talked about getting married but haven’t tied the not yet. Finding out that you are pregnant when you’re unmarried can leave you very confused about wherether two of you stand regarding marriage.Women are often torn between wanting to be married before the baby is born and waiting to marry so thatthay can have theirdream wedding.
Should you do whatever it takes to make sure that you are man and wife before the baby arrives? Or will you be adding more stress by planning a wedding and planning for a baby? See what LuvemOrLeavem’s Advice Panel vloggers have to say about whether or not to wait for the wedding once a baby is on the way.
Tina of LuvemOrLeavem recently blogged about dream weddings, and why they often don’t meet the high expectations of the bride. Hear why she thinks that it’s worth missing out on that dream wedding when it means bringing your baby into the world as a married couple.
Tinzley of the dating blog And You Wanna See My Feet has quite a list of questions to go through to help you decide if having that baby and then having the dream wedding will work for you. She also shares some things that you should consider when you are considering having a wedding while sporting a baby bump.
Abiola of the dating advice blog Abiola TV explains how you need to lose the shotgun wedding mentality when deciding whether you want to be a pregnant bride or whether you want to have the baby first and then have the wedding of your dreams.
What do you think? Should you rush a wedding if you are pregnant and unmarried or should you have a big wedding after the baby arrives? Please share your thoughts in the comments section.
Most women will tell you that they absolutely would never date a married man. Their answer is not so definite when they are asked if they would date a married man who is separated even though he is technically a married man until he is officially divorced. So, is the status of being separated a green light to date this person or is it more complicated than that. See what the Advice Panel vloggers have to say about dating someone who is separated but not yet divorced.
Tina of LuvemOrLeavem explains why separation is often not nearly as close to being divorced as one would hope. She goes through some typical scenarios where women have gotten their hearts broken by dating men who are separated but not divorced based on love dilemmas that women have shared in her relationship advice forum.
Abiola of the dating advice blog, Abiola TV explains why you may very well get the unexpected title of home wrecker if you date a man who is merely separated but not yet divorced.
Tinzley Bradford of the dating blog And You Wanna See My Feet also feels that being separated is very different from being fully available dating material. She explains why dating someone like this is not only disrespectful to the woman that is still his wife, but it also shows a lack of respect for yourself by dating someone can not be fully yours.
Kim Hess is a divorce guru as well as being divorced herself, so she is very familiar with the road from separation to divorce. Kim has two main questions that need to be answered correctly before giving you the green light to date someone who is separated.
Terez of Regain Your Relationship has a very definite opinion on why you need to to wait until the divorce is final. Take a listen and hear why Terez feels that separation is not enough of a split to begin dating.
What do you think? Is being separated just a stone’s throw from being divorced? Would you date someone in this situation? Please share your thoughts in the comments section.
Knowing when to end a relationship can be much more difficult than it sounds. The timing may be obvious if you if you are miserable in your relationship, but it is not so simple if you are in a relationship that leaves you feeling somewhere in between happy and unhappy. Deciding if your relationship is truly over is even more complicated if you are in a relationship that has many ups and downs and always seems on the verge of recovering. The Advice Panel video bloggers have put together their list of the top signs thatit is time to put an end to your relationship.
Tina of LuvemOrLeavem addesses the issue by examining whether your relationship is merelyin a rut or whether it is truly showing one of three signs that you are in a dead end relationship.
Terez of Regain Your Relationship advises you to listen to your gut and gives you some tips onhow to do this. He alsohas some warning for anyone who finds themselves in an abusive relationship.
Kelly Seal of Notes from the Dating Trenches also believes that you should follow your instincts. She shares some surefire tips that your relationship needs to end so that you aren’t tempted to let fear make you stay in a relationship that is truly over.
Kim Hess AKA the Divorce Guru has three signs that it is time to end that relationship. She also shares some words of wisdom for those ladies that have been ignoring these signs because they are afraid of being alone.
Abiola of the dating advice blog Abiola TV, start with her hilarious list of how to know it’s over that is sure to have you smiling. She follows this by sharing her special Abiola formula to help you decide if it is time to go.
What do you think? What are your top signs that a relationship is over? Please shareyour tipsin our comments section.
The guy you are dating may be wonderful in many ways, but is he the type of person that you could really be happy with for a lifetime? It can be hard to decide if your relationshipwillbring you happinessfor the short term or if it has true staying power. To help you decide ifhe is”the one” theAdvice Panel vloggers share their top signs that he has the potential to be your lifetime partner.
