The idea of reprogramming yourself from wrong mindset isn’t an new topic, as a matter of fact its been talked and preached about from as far back as the 14th century as i can recall or even further. It’s a constant reminder of the things that we have heard over and over again that keeps us going and in check. What chapter are you today in the book of life?

The mindset we all had as kids growing up was those of a child full of vision and belief in ourselves. children without fear of the future, bright and confident in themselves and capable of taking steps without fear. What happened to you now? grown up with fear and a polluted mindset? Because that high school coach told you you can’t make it to the football team or that cheerleader team leader don’t like you involved ?, its not good enough for you to loose selfconfidenceand hope in yourself. This is time rewrite the software program of your life and put on the thinking hat and start believing in yourself again.

Because someone is more beautiful than you, think he/she is smarter or more intelligent than you is not enough for you to loose sleep over yourself.You have to break free from these mindset of i am not good enough, i can’t do it, no one has done it before, i am too old to succeed, its too late for me now!, i am not gonna get well i have had this problem a long time. Time for you to press the DELETE button and erase that stronghold out of your system holding you back. If you don’t do it now, no one else can do it for you.

You need to start deleting that junk of false believe telling you can’t do anything or rise higher or be better. shut-up that tiny voice screaming inside your head right now telling you how impossible that task is to accomplish, who is the BOSS? you or the voice?, stop letting somebody tell you what you can or cannot accomplish, enough is enough and time to shift your paradigm of thought from what the world tell you you can accomplish or not. The laws of gravity did not stop man from breaking through the earth force fields and dominating and exploring space. there would be no laws ofaerodynamics, flights and space vehicles if some group of men and women believed they could not accomplish much, instead they allowed the limitations as abreak-fieldto support andnurturethier ambitions
It is time for you to step up today and ask yourself the big question“WHO AM I?
Why do i think this way? who programmed me to start feeling inferior? who programmed me to think that i am only to settle for average? Is it theenvironmentyou foundyourself growing up? who told you it is normal just because you feel so? question yourself. Just because you grew up around people who did not have dreams, goal or ambitions, or that other family members went around with low self esteem, self inferiority complex. Do not make the mistake of thinking all these is normal because it isn’t.

Take a Leap of Faith Becuase You Can Succeed!

It is not too late to change if you would get rid of those mindset now and get in life with God, a belief in yourself and think of possibilities.There is still time to fulfil yourpossibilities. Don’t be part of the history that never made adifferencein your society and the world. If you think you have reached your limit, yes you have because you haveconvincedyourself so. Nothing even the bestpsychologistcan get you inline to change your mindset if your mind is not made up to accept change. You are your own bestpsychologist. When that voice keep singing in your head you can’t, say oh yes i can, when you hear its not impossible, ignore the thought and speak possibilities in your favour.

Carl Lewiswas a sportathleteand long jump hero who before his ground breaking round of 30feetlong jump, performed a feat no man had before his day. journalist and sport analyst said it was impossible to achieve a 30 feet jump record and no man did before his day. Carl said i knew thoughts like that has a way of sliding down my feet. in that year he broke that record and ever since man has gone a step further beyond Carl Lewis bravery. As the experts and professionals said its’s impossible but he proved them wrong. Prove someone wrong today and don’t left your destiny and who you are or can be be dictated by someone else. They day you stop listening and paying attention to every form of negativity andimpossibilityis the day you are reborn!

Life is a paradigm shift from one plane of existence to another, our growth is a gradualprogressionof a life without knowledge of what surrounds us as a child with humble innocence to full grown adult with greater knowledge, sometimes we are fine and at times we suffer from one form of information overload to another, but one thing remains constant. our core values in life. The world would be in a state of random chaos if there are no basic core values of existence been upheld, so much so can our human life drift apart without a set of core value standing as a pillar of truth to guide us in our daily decisions. The difference between theWisemanand the fool is as a result of their individual concept of life.

“In an ever changing world there are principles that should govern your life. they explain why you do the things you do, and what you stand for.they are not just cultural norms, religious doctrines or impositions,business strategies or response to market changes: they are non-negotiablethat dictate how you live your life” —-culled from UCB word for today.

It takes a lot of courage and determination to live and work by a set of core values, as one who has been involved from one leadership position to another i can tell you having a set of core values makes life easier and less cumbersome, we all admire and love quality works, a set of accomplished goal, good standards of life and discipline and all these rely on core values to accomplish astonishing results. I was watching theparliament meeting in the house of commons on BBC 1 onWednesday4th of may and one of the rules been passed on is the issue of more sex education for femalesbetweenthe ages of 13 – 16 years of age as aresultof high pregnancy rates and less support prior to pregnancy from the people they love , and the law been passed on that day was a strong emphasis on Abstinence as a core value to which sex education is to be championed.This not only prooves the importance of core values but the importance and how it can help you and i live a much better and fulfilled lifestyle.

Be doers of the word and not just hearers
What you truly believes in determines how you act and manifest yor action steps on a daily basis. According to John Macy, Author the enemy called Average, “It means making yourself valuable to someone today…tackling a problem bigger than yourself’”…’getting to know God by studying his word, helping someone who can’t repay you, not been afraid to ask for help, doing today what you want to put off tomorrow.. remembering that the time and place to be happy is here and now… taking small steps to conquer bad habit… and evaluating your actions not by the harvest they produce, but by the seeds you are sowing.’

As a man of principles nothing gives me greater joy than knowing i leave people a little better than the wayIfound them.Are you doing enough? if not how about taking a u-turn and making an impart in the world. remember the greatest legacy you could ever leave is not stone monuments nor names carved on streets, the greatest of all legacies is leaving monumental imprints in the heart of people stamped by time —– Louis Redemption

The decision to take responsibility for our actions and seek a path of self fulfillment for our life is the beginning of self development and self discovery.This tremendous journey when embarked upon could take minutes to decide upon for the quick and irrational person to decide.It could also take days and years to discern a true self-worth path of calling.Irrespective of thedeferencein human behaviour and choice,It boils down to one factor FREEWILL.The journey of self discovery and self development means different things to different folks although with slight similarities in pattern of want(s).

Happiness,love,success,fame,wealth,spirituality… are all possible pattern of choice we may seek to on the glorious path of self discovery and self development.Self discovery and self development is about taking and making vital decisions to create the lifestyle you really want. Embarking on this journey is not a days job neither is it one that can easily be actualized under a short period of time.

To discover your inner person, you must be patient, enthusiastic, persistent, consistent ,wise decision making and to sum it up have the drive and energy to make it work even when all odds tells you its not possible. To succeed you must have dogged determination and a No for an answer to all negativity that rear its ugly head around you. Note, because you have chosen to succeed and be different, it ain’t gonna be easy and obstacles are bound to come your way. That is indisputable because you will experience many obstacles along your way on your path to self discovery and development.

Life is an ever changing and continuous evolving state of existence, so therefore your ability to adjust and remodel your plans of action as you learn along the corridor of life dictates the pace at which you grow tremendously. Invaluable facts will reveal itself to you as yourself developmental circle matures. The pains and mistakes caused on the part to your development are key instruments of your successes to come if only you learn wisely from them.

Often times there are things that have occurred in our lives that have sparked unforgettable memories that keep coming back, there is tendency to forget the factors that propels us on the journey of self development and discovery. Those memories can trigger unpleasant thoughts that make it hard to put a plan into perspective to change and develop our lives the way we want them. There is a lot to benefit from, on this singular decision of finding out your inner calling in life. The key to unlocking the hidden treasure that lay within your destiny is the willingness to seek out that which life has in store for you.Taking this step is the best thing that can ever happen to you.think of the goldmines of talents buried in thecemeterywiththeirhidden treasures. This world has lost more Talents with mind blowing inventions that never saw the light of day. ask yourself this question, do you want to live this world without leaving your footprint in the sands of time?

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Relationship is a two way street that is travelled in both directions. One of the reasons for failed relationships is not because there is no love neither is it as a result of lack of communication. 90% of relationships today fail because we fail to realize that relationship is not an ownership but a partnership. Get this golden principle and you are on your way to making your relationship stand out of the crowd. The world today is filled with so much partners seizing control of relationships when it is meant to be a communal and mutual benefit. Healthy relationships exist today because of these golden rules of life. Is your relationship on the verge of collapse? what are you doing now to fix it? Relationship does not have to be a war of emotions. learning the basic principles that has led people to lead successful life from one generation to another is the key you need to unlock your relationship today. I am not a relationship expert but i can definitely tell you that there are master keys to unlocking your relationship.

The Partnership Factor

Partnership? how does this help improve my relationship you may say. what on earth this got to do with having a healthy relationship? If all these have just plagued your mind , then go get yourself a drink and seat tight. Many people go into relationship not realising it is more than just snuggling or having intimate sexual encounter(s).If you want your relationship to be a lasting success, then you need to learn and understand that relationship is a partnership between you and your significant other. Learning to respect and appreciate the views, ideas, opinions, rights, duties and responsibilities of one another is what makes your union strong. relationship is not an ownership. it cannot be owned or controlled by you. there is no boss. if you are able to realise and apply this one principle to your relationship, you are on your way to solving half the problem encountered in relationships

The Gratitude Mindset
A sign of appreciation is always a welcomed gesture in any relationship that wishes to stand the test of time. One of the worst feeling that one can ever encounter in a relationship is to not be appreciated. showing gratitude and a heart of thanksgiving towards good gestures showered upon you by your significant other .Never you underestimate what thank you can do for you.You must eradicate every ego and pride you have and exercise the spirit of humility and obedience to one another. It pays to humble oneself in a relationship and learn to appreciate each other. This simple and often overlooked secret of healthy relationships will save you a lot of pain and heartbreak overtime.

Forgiveness
Do you have an open-heart to forgive a friend?, family member? or even your significant other? forgiveness is a big player when it comes to relationship. As humans we are all prone to error and offend each other. It is not the hurt that matters the most but the action you take to the hurt caused is the critical key. In other to have a vibrant and healthy relationship , you must be willing to forgive and let go completely an offence ,abuse or hurt received. it is not an act of cowardice to say I AM SORRY! neither is it a weakness to be remorseful for an irresponsible action undertaken. Learn to say i am sorry and forgive and you will be so amazed how this goes a long way to keep your relationship strong and firm.

A relationship built on solid foundation can never be pulled down. it may be shaken and tugged by the trials and challenges and these are the things that strengths a relationship even more.

We all have a burning goal and desire in life, filled with youthful and glorious thoughts of a bright future and where we should be, but only a handful with such a goal often take with them their accomplishment to thier graves. What would you like to be remembered for and by? A quite live with no sign of existence or a man or woman of valour whose accomplishment is littered on the page of history and most importantly imprinted as monuments in the hearts of people? That is quite a question i know but a well thought one to be reviewed and answered in all regards with every inch of sincerity.

Our brain can only consciously process a minute percentage of the data and stimulus we encounter. Our brain power usage is onlya tenth of its actual potential as we most undermine using it.Forsurvival and sanity our brains are wired to deliver the data it deems important. Importance is defined by whateverwe train or teach our brain to focus on or act,believe upon. This is a logical explanation why negative people tend to have bad days and positive peopletend to have good days. Havent you ever gotten really pissed off,angry and irritated at a chubby happy merry-go colleague(s),friend who neverseems to have a bad day and you wonder how he or she could possibly be so composed, confident and totally ignore every little bad circumstance? I can assure you, youre most absolutelyright, He or She is ignoring the bad stuff but not with a conscious state of mind but unconsciously without even knowing it. His or her brain simply filters it out because he or shes notfocused on it. So as far as he or shes concerned the bad situation or circumstance never happened or occurred, or it wasnt translated as badwith an emotional response.

The fear factor’s Effect on The Brain Power

Fear as often defined is false evidence appearing real fear is the single most powerful enemy of humankind, countless would have been great men and women have succumbed to her seductive and yet woeful power. Fear is the greatest seductress the world has ever known, it eats deepinto you with a feeling like none before and it renders you worthless after sucking the living light of success, boldness and determination in you.Most of us face our fear when we attempt to succeed at something.The graveyard as we know it today is the richest abode of great men and women whose talents have been lost deep and buried in the pages of time, who out of their own fear where not bold,confidence enough to believe and exercise in themselves their God given talents. Would you rather be timid and fearful or be bold and show the world what potentials you have got? What is the price or boldness compared to a shameful act of cowardice? I leave you to be the judge of what actions you take, decisions you make and where you want to lead your life up to, but even as we do so, be for warned that “we often neglect and or sacrificeparts of ourselvesto fulfil duty, make others happy and do our job” Jaime Mintun.

Thank you for taking the time to visit this site and read this very post. Yes thank you, as you can see i am leading by example. Like the post title says, show an act of gratitude!. How often have you said thank you , to a friend, your partner, children, colleagues, friends as a sign of appreciation for those little things they have done for you?

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